Saturday, May 30, 2009

360/180 degrees... REalize the angle you are in


Leaving just isn’t easy! It is unfortunate and it happens! When it does, we fight it because leaving someone you have spent time with and loving is no easy task. In every relationship, regardless of how it started or how it is ending, there are so many good things you have convinced yourself could and should keep together. They do, until the day you wake up and realize the things that once worked no longer do.
you know you’ve changed. you’ve grown.The little things that once brought a smile to your face are now burden in your heart. you know what you have to do. you just don’t know how to do it. You don’t want anyone, especially you, to get hurt. You know that if you could just move beyond the fear, the guilt, the anticipation of anger, you could close this door. It wouldn’t be easy, but you could move on. You know you have done the best you could do. You know you have given all that you have to give. Yet for some reason you keep on trying to make it work. Well. here is something that you may not know..
When you have learned all you can learn in a relationship, its season will end. When you have healed what you came into the relationship to heal, its purpose has been fulfilled. When a relationship is over, it is over! Hanging on will only make the days ahead darker!
You may have thought that ending a realtionship was a difficult, challenging or unnecessary experience.
Acknowledge and accept all that you have learned and all that you have healed. When you can be grateful for those things, it will be easier to let go.
Acknowledge the lessons learned, blessings earned and wounds that have been healed.
Realize that people do come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime!
...now. ..that i'm seeing what I've written before. I shall say.. Realize the angle you are in..SHall you stay (360') or shall you go? (180')... As much as possible, I do not want to go over what I've written.. NOw i SEe.. I realized how painful it was for me.. Yes it WAS! and It will always will be! but one thing is for sure I am healed.. Because I can look at it now. NO tears of regrets. No disappoinments toward thyself. My life now is happier and more matured, and with a wider point of view.If you feel like the relationship you are in now is just worth saving. GO! give it a chanCE. Take not I did say, A CHANCE (not chances)..but if not.... cry it all out.give yourself a good cry. good cry, GO!because you are giving up and not letting go. The difference between the two? GIVING UP is surrendering it because it not right anymore and Letting GO is making it go when it was rightfully yourS! ....

8 comments:

mckhoii said...

nagpapatama ka ata sis... nananaja ka ba? Well, there are lots of good things after goodbyes. that's fosho!

Lady in Disguise said...

more to come my dear..hehe!

Unknown said...

Everything happens for a reason.

Lady in Disguise said...

tnx for dropping by rouchard...kit! gb=)

echt thoughts said...

it's all ryt letting urself go as long as u can get urself back...connection pls...hehe... echt thoughts...

Lady in Disguise said...

let me do it..well..life is a big puzzle..sometimes love is just an outpouring of emotions..you'll never know until you're drowned! wheew..complicated as it is...lessons learned and ashes to burn..=) tnx for dropping by ms.echt!=)till then!=)

Lady in Disguise said...

sometimes.. we make a reason to make it happen...

mckhoii said...

true! oftentimes, we're even unconconscious about it

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